Chances are you’ve known a woman who seemingly gets whatever she wants in life. The clothes, the attention, money, the hot lover … just everything. 

It’s like ‘it girl’ status on stilettos.

But it isn’t because they’ve been blessed with luck, charmed by the gods, or have a magic genie in their back pocket. It’s because they’ve gotten very good at the art of attraction.

Attraction comes from a place of personal power, unshakable self-worth, and the confidence in knowing that you can get the things you desire.

They’re simply learned skills.

Which means you can learn how to do it too.

So whether you desire more attention, that new Telfar bag, a man whose body rivals Idris Elba, or just the confidence in knowing you can get what you want from life, these 8 powerful methods will help you master your art of attraction.

The first step in becoming an attraction magnet is to fully believe you are worthy of having everything you want.

We all have subconscious limiting beliefs that block us from getting what we desire.

They keep us in a comfort zone. Stuck. In a state of repelling instead of attracting. But they can be overcome by simply changing your thinking.

The first step in dropping these limiting liars is to identify what they are. Once you’ve done that, see them for what they truly represent - just a bunch of negative, false thoughts - and not absolute facts.

Challenge these abundance-busting beliefs with questions like:

• Is this belief an absolute truth? (I could never pull a dress off like that)
• Is there evidence contradicting this belief? (Has anyone else worn it and looked amazing in it? If so, then you can too!)
• Have I always felt this way? (If not, what’s changed?)
• Is this belief helping me get what I want out of life? (If you’re reading this, it probably isn’t)
• How would I approach this belief if I were someone else? (Where would icons like Lizzo, Khloe Kardashian, or Rihanna be today if they gave into their limiting beliefs?)

Once you’ve challenged these joy thieves, it’s time to start adopting limitless beliefs and putting them into practice every day. Visualize what you want to achieve consistently, and they’ll become your new truth.

Now that you’ve tackled the limiting beliefs surrounding what you’re worthy of having, the next step is to get crystal clear on what you actually want.

Our minds are powerful creators. What you think, you will attract. The key point here is to be as specific as possible.

Whether it’s a hot romantic partner, a dream job, money, or even the latest Fenty drop, write it down in lucid detail.

Looking to land that man? Write down exactly what you want him to look like, right down to the color of his boxers. Is he manicured? Manscaped? Bearded? What does he smell like? Visualize every detail.

Do you want to attract money? Get specific on how much and in what timeframe. Start saying things like, “I’m a magnet for money. Money comes easily to me.” Many people have major limiting beliefs when it comes to cash, so start back at method #1 if you feel blocked.

When you know what you want, it will come to you much faster, and in exactly the way you desire.

Self-discovery can be a really beautiful process. One that involves removing the filter and taking a deep, long look at who you are, what you believe in, what you’re good at, what you’ve accomplished, and what you set out to do in the future.

Become deliberately conscious of your strengths and positive attributes.

• Are you a fantastic cook?
• Do you play a sport (you don’t have to be great at it)
• Are you the friend that everyone knows they can count on?
• Are you nurturing and loving to your romantic partners?
• Do you know how to throw one hell of a party?
• Do you have a shoe collection that would make any girl swoon?
• Do you have great taste in music?
• Can you shake that booty on the dance floor?
• Can you fold towels like they do in fancy hotels?

No matter what’s on your list, recognize that those are your superpowers. Your unique gifts. Often when we’re naturally talented in some area, we take it for granted because it comes easy to us. So don’t discount what you may consider as ‘trivial’ or ‘easy’ because to another, it may be a real challenge.

When you truly love yourself and honor what you bring to the world, you exude confidence that is positively magnetic. And you feel really good, too.

The most important part of this step in your attraction method journey is to love who you are RIGHT NOW. Not when you lose 10 pounds. Not when you get the new hair. Not when you land the man. Not anything other than who you are … right … now. You’re already worthy, babe.

Pampering yourself should never be considered a luxury! It’s a necessity. When you avoid things that make you feel good and look good, you deplete your self-worth. It’s one of the most important things you can do to create a healthy relationship with yourself and others. It produces positive feelings, which only builds more self-love, self-confidence, and self-esteem.

Investing in yourself puts you in the energy of attraction.

If you’ve found yourself living in leggings and oversized sweatshirts, up your game and add some spice to your wardrobe. Swap out the oversized shirts for a lacy bralette - or anything that makes you feel sexy and feminine.

Create a signature scent for yourself that you wear every day. One that makes you feel vibrant and sensual. And commit to it. No matter what’s on your to-do list, don’t leave the house - or curl up for a Netflix marathon - without it.

We know a little something about this. We’ve developed some of the most alluring, romantic scents that have become self-investment staples for women. Our newest perfume, Unforgettable Amour La Nuit Eau De Parfum, inspires sensuality and femininity and has quickly become a fan obsession.

If you prefer long-lasting oils that you can keep in your purse and take anywhere, try our Flirty Little Secret Perfume Oil. It’s sultry, sexy, and a whole lotta #baddie.

Plus these gorgeous scents contain pheromones, which will give you a scientifically-backed, powerful attraction advantage, too.

Beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, but feeling beautiful is all up to you

Setting intentions is similar to setting goals, but it involves energy and vibration; both of which are supercharged methods of attraction.

Just like getting clear about what you want, when you set an intention, it’s important to be specific.

For example, rather than saying “I want to be attractive,” try setting an intention like “I intend to feel sexy, confident, and alluring in my body.”

Be sure your intentions align with your overall goals. The more they do, the easier it will be to attract them.

Amplify your results by saying these mantras to yourself in the mirror every day:

• I am worthy of love and happiness.
• I am capable of achieving anything I set my mind to.
• I am attracting everything I want into my life.

When you are grateful for what you have, it creates a vibration of abundance which, like energy and vibration, is a powerful attractor.

Keep in mind that it’s also important to be grateful for the things you want, even if you don’t have them yet.

Some ways to practice gratitude include:

• Keeping a gratitude journal and writing down three things you’re grateful for each day.
• Saying thank you (out loud when possible) when good things happen to you.
• Visualize receiving all that you desire and feel the emotion of gratitude for having it, even if it hasn’t made its way to you yet.

We all experience self-doubts and fears that get the best of us every now and then. Even the most confident people feel insecure sometimes. But if you find yourself constantly playing the comparison game where you’re the one who needs to level up, you’re diminishing your power.

First of all, what you’re telling yourself isn’t true (see Attraction Method #1). YOU are the only you that ever was, and will ever be. And that alone makes you unique, special, and worthy.

Think about it; we often say things about ourselves that we would never say to another person - especially someone we loved. So stop hurting your feelings and betraying yourself, and instead view yourself from a place of honor, love, and respect. You need to love yourself the most, first. Then through your example, you teach everyone else how to love you properly.

Do this consistently, and your confidence will soar. And what’s more attractive than a confident woman?

There’s a famous saying that goes: if you do what you always do, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten. Now is the time to abandon the old habits that aren’t serving you.

If you’re trying to attract new things into your life, you need to get out of your comfort zone and put yourself in new places and situations!

Trying new things is a great way to boost self-confidence and esteem. And it can also be a lot of fun.

• Go take a hike (literally)
• Dance it out at Zumba class
• Try aerial yoga
• Take a pole dancing class
• Try stand-up paddleboarding
• Take a photography class
• Don’t complain for a whole day
• Go an entire day without apologizing
• Hygge up one room of your home
• Do anything that makes you feel alive and vibrant.

And when you’re out having fun, building up that confidence, focusing on yourself, loving yourself as you are, free from those limiting beliefs, investing in yourself, and living in gratitude for all that you have and will attract, guess what happens?

You may just end up with everything you want.

We’d love to hear from you. What are you looking to attract? And how did it feel to apply some of these powerful attraction tips into your daily life? Drop a comment below and share your attraction wins!