4 Tips To Explore The Senses With Your Partner

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4 Tips To Explore The Senses With Your Partner

Sometimes all you want is a quickie, and there's nothing wrong with that. But other times, you want to take your time!

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You want to get in the mood, invite your body to relax and receive. You want to explore your lover's body, build intimacy, engage the senses, and heighten anticipation. Hello and yes please!

"When we say "kissing," we don't just mean on the lips.. remember that you can kiss anywhere."

The four tips below help you do all of that while reminding you that sex is about the journey -- not just the destination. Read on to learn how to engage all the senses with your partner while bringing the heat in the bedroom and beyond:

Step 1. Break the Ice

You may not think of breaking the ice as something you need to do with your partner, but a few flirty questions can get you in the mood and warm you both up for what's to come.

Focus your questions on scintillating memories and naughty fantasies. There's no better way to ease into dirty talk if that's your thing. Stay close to your partner as you ask these questions. Don't forget to answer a few yourself!

Here are a few examples. (Remember, you'll find more sexy communication tools in Dana's book, the Mommy Mojo Makeover!)

  • Do you remember the first time we had sex?
  • Do you ever have naughty thoughts about me?
  • Is there someplace you'd like to have sex that we haven't yet?
  • What do I do that turns you on the most?

Take turns asking questions. When the erotic energies are high and you just can't take it anymore, ask one final question: Do you want to stop talking and have sex right now?

2. Kiss Everywhere

Somehow, kissing takes a back burner to intercourse. But we're here to set the record straight! Kissing is sensual and seductive, and it deserves its place among your favorite foreplay activities…

When we say "kissing," we don't just mean on the lips. Although, that's good. Remember that you can kiss anywhere. Anywhere!

There are so many types of kisses to choose from, too: soft and gentle, long and wet, deep and intense, or a combination of all of them. You can even use your eyelashes to give butterfly kisses or rub noses with your special someone.

So pucker up and get ready to use your lips, tongue, and even teeth to titillate your partner. If you want to bring it to the next level, try a kiss with a bit of ice or cold water, bubbly soda, Pop Rocks, or even warm water to surprise your lover with your new sensual skills.

Do you want to leave a trail of kisses? Apply our Kissaholic Plumping Lip Gloss before gracing your partner's body with your lips.

Don't forget to pepper in kisses once things get hot and heavy.

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3. Exchange Sensual Touch

If you only use one of the tips from this list, this is the one! Massage lets you connect body and mind with your lover. A sensual massage treats all the senses when you include scented or flavored products, massage candles, or warming oil.

In fact, Booty Parlor serves up everything you need for an amazing massage connection: Our Don't Stop Massage Oil and Don't Stop Massage Candle make for a perfect feel. You can use either or combine them for the ultimate sensual experience.

The secret weapon for a more intimate massage is the Good Girl Bad Girl Blindfold. Wearing a blindfold heightens the senses, so you'll practically shiver in anticipation while waiting for your lover's hands to caress your body or for a drizzle of warm massage oil to land on your skin.

This special blindfold is reversible and sends a message to your partner, too. Flip it to the “good” side to indicate that you want just a relaxing massage or the “bad girl” side to say you're all in for a very naughty night!

If you only use one of the tips from this list, this is the one! Massage lets you connect body and mind with your lover. A sensual massage treats all the senses when you include scented or flavored products, massage candles, or warming oil.

In fact, Booty Parlor serves all this up in one seductive bundle: How to Give & Get the Sexiest Massage Bundle. This kit contains our Don't Stop Massage Oil and Don't Stop Massage Candle. You can use either or combine them for the ultimate sensual experience.

The secret weapon in this massage kit might be the Good Girl Bad Girl Blindfold. Wearing a blindfold heightens the senses, so you'll practically shiver in anticipation while waiting for your lover's hands to caress your body or for a drizzle of warm massage oil to land on your skin.

This special blindfold is reversible and sends a message to your partner, too. Flip it to the “good” side to indicate that you want just a relaxing massage or the “bad girl” side to say you're all in for a very naughty night!

4. Make It Edible

Don't forget about exploring your sense of taste during an erotic massage. Booty Parlor's Don't Stop Kissable Warming Massage Oil  comes in four flavors that you can massage into and lick from your partner's body: strawberry kiss, marshmallow gold, sugared apple, and chocolate bronze.

If you want to try something other than oil, as you tease your partner with your tongue, our Skin Honey is just the thing. It's a kissable body topping that's designed specifically for the bedroom, unlike messy chocolate sauce. You can drizzle it anywhere you want to kiss or be kissed!

The three flavors--sugared apple, marshmallow gold, and chocolate honey--are all delicious on their own. But you can mix and match to create your own perfect recipe. Or you and your partner can pick different flavors and combine them with a passionate kiss!

With these sexy foreplay tips, you can build up anticipation and your connection for the best sex of your life!

We’d love to hear from you. What’d you think of these sexy, sensory tips to explore with your partner in the heat of the moment? Drop a line in the comments below and let us know which one you’ll be trying first!


We’d love to hear from you. What body part do you criticize the most? And how did it feel to turn that negative body banter into a sexy self-love affirmation? Drop a comment below and share your self-love.


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